Online Dating Sex Rules
The Rules For Successful Online Dating For Sexually Adventurous Adults
The rules of Online Dating are constantly evolving, and you need to be on top of your game if you want to be safe and successful. Here are the new rules of engagement.
Modesty Is For Losers: Don’t admit to being nervous or inexperienced. Putting yourself down diminishes your attractiveness. If you sound needy and insecure you will attract the exploiters and scammers.
Confidence Is An Attraction: But be careful what you say. Cooking skills are endearing, but wealth and possessions are just bragging.
Don’t Be A Bore: The aim of online dating is to link up with someone you find attractive. Do this by being original and specific about your interests. Specific information not only makes you sound interesting, it also gives potential partners something to be interested in.
Forget Your Emotional Baggage: Most adults have a history of failed relationships, hang-
Ditch The Shopping List: Be less specific in your needs and you will have a greater chance of success. Lists of potential partners desired attributes are off-
Don’t Be Ashamed Of Your Appearance: Don’t even think about posting an advert without a photo. A profile without a photo implies you have something to hide. And NEVER post someone else’s photo!
The Camera Must Never Lie: A photo taken when you were younger or slimmer will backfire. The potential dates come knocking, and then what? You meet, and the blood drains from their face as they realise that your photo was taken 10 years, five stone and 500 wrinkles ago.
Think Twice About Sexy Photos: They may make you look attractive -
Don’t Be Fooled By Sexy Photos: These are just images, and not the real person.
Be Positive About Failure: You may get no responses, especially if you are male. Don’t despair -
Don’t Play Hard To Get: Everyone else has the same fears and aspirations as you. So reply promptly and politely, even if you are not attracted to people who write to you. Remember that there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Don’t Waste Time: If a couple are mutually attracted online, bite the bullet and meet as soon as you are reasonably sure. You cannot really connect unless it is face-
Don’t Expect Too Much: A first date is part of the learning process. You may jump straight into bed, but if you don’t this is not a failure. Proper connections can take time.
17. It may take many dates to find someone you like
It’s easy to lose faith when your first few dates don’t work out. It’s very unusual for someone to find a good match in their first few attempts. See it all as experience, not as proof that you’re a loser (or that everyone else is a loser). Learn from your bad and boring dates and try again.
18. Split the bill
You’re two grown-
19. Have sex if you want – and not if you don’t want
Having sex doesn’t make you morally corrupt, and it won’t necessarily wreck your chances of a relationship. If you’re both adults, single and you use protection, it’s your choice – but if you’d rather not, that’s your choice too. Never be pushed into sex that you don’t want.
20. Call them the next day
Ignore those rules about waiting three days to get in touch. If you like someone, you have nothing to lose by letting them know. If they are interested, they’ll be happy that you called. If they’re not interested, at least you’ll know – and you can move on to the next date. Back to home